My boyfriend has a very large penis and I have not had sex in over 8 years. We’re having trouble with intercourse. We are in our 60s and he is very active and interested.
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My boyfriend has a very large penis and I have not had sex in over 8 years. We’re having trouble with intercourse. We are in our 60s and he is very active and interested.
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Sorry you’re having this problem. And men take note. There are downsides to a big one.
Meanwhile, the vagina is very elastic. If full-term babies can come out, then even huge penises can get in. Have you tried a hot bath beforehand to relax you, then lots of lube on both of you? I suggest you work your way up to intercourse with him on his back and you on top straddling him. That way you can sit down on his erection, controlling the speed and depth of insertion.
If that doesn’t take care of things, then perhaps you have some age-related vaginal atrophy, thinning of the vaginal lining that can make intercourse difficult or impossible. Eight years is a long time, and I wonder if you’ve been keeping up with gynecology check-ups. If not, now would be a good time to schedule one. Ask the doctor if there’s any anatomical reason you might not be able to have intercourse.
If you want intercourse, you can probably have it. But for many couples in their 60s, intercourse fades from the sexual menu. He’s got erection issues (maybe even with drugs), and she’s got vaginal dryness and maybe atrophy that might make intercourse uncomfortable even with lots of lubricant and patience. Many older couples opt for sex without intercourse.
At first this may seem odd. For many lovers, sex MEANS intercourse. But the fact is you can enjoy marvelous sex playing with hand jobs, oral, sex toys, and if you’re so inclined, light anal. It’s quite possible to have marvelous sex without the old in-out. If you’re interested, read Great Sex Without Intercourse.