It’s not always, but why do I sometimes bleed during sex and also after?

I am 22. So, I have been masturbating for 10 years now with a back massager. Then 3 years ago, I met my boyfriend and I’ve only been able to orgasm through sex 3 times. I am able to get off with oral pleasure or his hand with not too much of a problem but the lack of orgasm during sex is beginning to take a toll on us both. He is really wonderful and we do try different things to help me but nothing helps. Since I can only get off with repeated sensation in a certain area and his penis just doesn’t do it for me, does that mean all the years of using the massager sort of ruined me? And also, what sort of things do you think I can do to help me reach orgasm. I appreciate any advice you can give me.

I’ve always enjoyed making love to my wife while she wears pantyhose. I recently tried them on myself (in secret) and became highly aroused. When I told my wife how much I liked wearing her pantyhose, she flipped out and now thinks I’m gay or crazy. How widespread is this pantyhose fetish and how can I convince my wife to be more accepting of me?

Very interesting site. Very useful information. But I’m insecure about my penis size. Can a woman who had a well endowed boyfriend, then go and marry a guy that is not well endowed? I’m on the small side, 5 1/2″, officially normal, however I fell insecure, and an extra inch or two would be nice. My wife says that I’m the best she has had. How could she feel that way after being with a well-endowed man?

A common problem…sex after prostate surgery – post-prostatectomy sex. Are there any solutions, devices, procedures, etc. that will help?

I love sex with my wife but every time we have sex I cum way too fast and it’s over. Help!

My husband and I have been married 17 years. We used to have sex all the time. Then he decided he wanted it only about once a week. The past year, it’s been like twice a month. I need it more often. When I ask him about this, he tells me it’s not me, that he’s just not into sex much anymore. How could that be? How could it NOT be me? Is there anything I can do to arouse his libido?

I’m a 46-year-old man. I want to introduce additional sex partners into my marriage. I’d like to watch another man fuck my wife, and I’d like her to watch me with another woman. I’d also like us to swing with other couples. Is this normal? My wife say it isn’t. What do you say?