I am a 62yr old man with what I think of as an “odd” problem – I find it very hard to orgasm during sex with my wife. We have an excellent sex life and I can maintain a good erection for long periods of time and bring my wife to orgasm several times during our lovemaking, but have great difficulty having an orgasm myself. We have tried extended foreplay; oral; her masturbating me; her being the driving force during intercourse, but I seem fixated on pleasuring my wife and consequently don’t reach orgasm myself, except on rare occasions. When I masturbate myself there are no problems reaching orgasm.
Help !!!

I am a women of 67 years of age. I seem to be easily aroused but don’t open up enough to receive the penis. I have been to doctors who have prescribe estrogen inserts which did not help. I have used the KY lubricants and other brands. Nothing seems to be working and I am afraid it is going to cause a problem with our relationship although he says it wont. Please help.

When I have sex doggie style, I make a sound like flatulence. Seems like it’s air coming from my vagina, not my bottom. What can I do to stop it?

I was widowed last year. I’m not ready to date, but I miss sex and need suggestions about good toys for a woman in my situation. I’ve never used a vibrator. My friends tell me I should get one. But I’m a little nervous about them. And which one? And are there any other toys I should try?

I’m 38. My husband is 42. Sex, when we have it, is great. But he is overly sexed. If I were willing, he would mount me 24/7. Meanwhile, I’m under-sexed. I don’t have much sex drive, nothing like his. I’m rarely in the mood, which makes me guilty and drives him crazy. Is there anything I can take to heighten my libido? HELP PLEASE.

I read your article on premature ejaculation, and I gotta hand it to you, Mike, it worked. I’ve come fast for 20 years, and after only 3 months of your program, I’m cured! I can last as long as I want. Amazing! My question is WHY? Why does your program work?

I’m a 41-year-old man in a long-distance relationship with a 42-year-old woman. We only see each other every other weekend, and when we do, we have lots of sex. By the end of the weekend, I often feel sore and have a burning sensation between my anus and scrotum. It goes away in a day or two. Does this mean we’re having too much sex? Is this a medical problem?

Do you have any suggestions for vibrator use in an elderly couple—I’m late 60’s, he’s early 70’s?

I am 55 years old and my penis seems to become an inny most of the time. When I’m aroused, it is its normal size but at other times it goes up into me. Is this normal? Is it my age?

We are having a problem with sex. My wife and I are both 60 and she has gone through the change of life. Sex hurts her and is start to hurt me too. Is there a good lube that we can use.