I’m 62, healthy, happily married (34 years)–and not very hard anymore, even with Viagra. At the health food store, they have a good dozen supplements that claim to boost male sexual energy and performance with ingredients like ginseng, ginkgo, maca, and yohimbe. Do these products work? Or are they a rip-off?

Divorced 18 months ago, I’m now interested in dating. I signed up on a few dating sites, but I must say I’ve been disappointed. The men seem so flaky, and they LIE. One man said he “owned a business.” Turned out he was unemployed. Another said he was “trim.” Actually, he was quite overweight. Am I just having some bad luck? Or is the world of online dating filled with men who lie?