We live in a sexual culture focused on intercourse. To many Americans “sex,” means intercourse—with the man able to raise and maintain a firm erection and the woman’s vagina naturally well-lubricated enough for comfortable accommodation…
What to do when your new husband has suffered Ejaculation/Orgasm problems his entire life beginning in childhood. He was molested and raped for years beginning at 4 years old. He spent years focusing on not…
Hello Michael: I am a 38-year-old man. All of my life I have struggled to reach orgasm with my partners. As a result, I have lost many relationships. My partners think that they do not…
I’m 69 and have a lot of difficulty reaching an orgasm despite really feeling the need to. I used to be able to masturbate and climax easily, but not any more. Help!!
Anal Beads Think of a pearl necklace, only the “pearls” are about the size of grapes and strung farther apart. When these beads are well-lubricated and inserted into or withdrawn from a well-lubricated anus, the…
Combining sex and alcohol produces some benefits—and many possible risks. The most succinct summary of alcohol’s impact on sex was penned 400 years ago by William Shakespeare in Macbeth: “It provokes the desire, but takes…
I am 75. My wife brings me to orgasm manually but I am unable to climax and ejaculate via vaginal intercourse—even when we use Viagra, Cialis, or a penis pump to enhance hardness. For unknown…
I am 52 years old. The man I am dating is 45. I love so many things about him, he’s funny, witty, slow to anger and the list could go on and on. He is…
Beyond a personal choice, self-sexing is the basis of joyous partner lovemaking Great sex involves much more than just joining genitals. A mountain of research has consistently shown that the foundation of satisfying lovemaking is…
It’s perfectly normal to masturbate. Here’s an old joke: Ninety-eight percent of people have done it—and the other 2 percent are lying. Masturbation is fine at any age: 10, 25, 45, 105. Masturbation is our…
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