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Hi Michael I am a 50-year-old man with increasing ED. I take care of my health—no diabetes, no alcohol, maintain recommended weight. My only issue is borderline cholesterol. My sexual life was good until two…

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Sexy couple in romantic pose

Stress causes many sex problems. Mindfulness relieves them by reducing stress. Great sex and meditation have a good deal in common. Both involve taking breaks from daily routines and responsibilities. Both include deep diaphragmatic breathing….

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man under sheets giving oral sex to woman

Oral sex is ubiquitous in pornography—especially fellatio. Porn actors—both men and women—can’t get enough of giving head, and receiving it. As a result, pornography has introduced many people to oral sex, shown them the basics…

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My wife and I waited to have sex until we got married. I am 26 and married 3 weeks but can’t get a full boner for some reason.  Maybe it’s because I have been doing…

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Unhappy woman in bed with partner

My husband and I have always had an active sex life. Then a few months ago, I noticed he didn’t really show much interest in fucking anymore. He made excuses like he’s tired or stressed,…

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Worried young man alone

Hi, I am a 20-year-old male who suffers from PE. I started masturbating at 11 or 12. I did not start watching porn until some time after that. I remember the first time, I was…

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Young man watching porn in bed on laptop

Hi Michael, I was hoping you could give me your opinion. I suffer with premature ejaculation and have since I was 13 (now 30). It gets me really depressed as I want to be able…

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Close-up of a young couple kissing each other

I have used a phone app to track my premature ejaculation progress using stop-start masturbation and I have managed to last up to 10 minutes. However, when I occasionally watch porn or I am having…

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couple watching a movie in bed

I am a woman, a “tomboy.” In many ways, I am more like a dude, or so I’ve been told. I don’t understand why women hate porn. I masturbate and imagine stuff when I do,…

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Man watching woman undress on laptop computer. Shot over shoulder to view screen.

Hi, I recently read your article “the real problem with porn, it’s bad for sex” and I was actually relieved that someone from the psychology world is addressing some of the problems with porn; thank…