Remote sex offers distant lovers intimate connection. But does it work for you? Circumstances force many lovers to spend extended time apart—school, family obligations, business travel, military deployment, whatever. For those so inclined, phone sex—including…
Do you like R-rated movies with steamy sex scenes? Most people do. There’s a little bit of voyeur in most of us. Do you ever wear tight, form-fitting, or revealing clothing? Most people do from…
In porn, women usually use strap-on dildos on each other. But in real life, many men with erection problems use them on women and many women use them to do men anally. As with other dildos,…
My 55-year-old husband’s fantasy is for me to have sex with a black man. He gets very aroused by this fantasy. He also enjoys watching interracial porn–black men, white women. I’m not interested in sex…
I have only had one lover–my husband. I did not have sex until I was 45 years old—no penetrative sex and less than a handful of sexual experiences that can even be considered “fooling around.”…
My 37-year-old boyfriend has been stealing my panties, bras, and booty shorts/ tank tops. WHY? He also has a better dildo collection than I have! WHY? And my facial foundation and lipstick. WHY? He is…
I am a straight male but find myself watching a lot of gay porn and having fantasies about it. I really want to experience preforming oral sex on another male until he cums in my…
We have been together 3+ years, living together 2+. He’s 70, I’m 68. Our sex life was good, but has dropped off to almost nothing. He has rejected me so many times it hurts. I…
Premature ejaculation is killing my sex life. Actually it’s almost non existent because of PE. At thirteen I lost my virginity without any sign of PE, then at 16 I had sex again and PE…
As I’ve written previously, this podcast is my personal favorite hosted by Seattle sex therapist Diana Wiley, Ph.D., who happens to be an old friend. In this show, we discussed how porn is miseducation, the…
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