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Some denounce solo sex as sin or addiction. Actually, it provides many benefits. Whenever I’ve blogged about masturbation, I’ve received a few comments calling it wrong, immoral, sinful, a sign of addiction, and a waste…

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Premature ejaculation is killing my sex life. Actually it’s almost non existent because of PE. At thirteen I lost my virginity without any sign of PE, then at 16 I had sex again and PE…

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If I had a dollar for every time I’ve heard sex educators say that a happy sexual relationship is all about “communication,” I’d be rich. Yes, of course, good communication is essential. But as tongues…

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I am a straight male but find myself watching a lot of gay porn and having fantasies about it. I really want to experience preforming oral sex on another male until he cums in my…

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As I’ve written previously, this podcast is my personal favorite hosted by Seattle sex therapist Diana Wiley, Ph.D., who happens to be an old friend. In this show, we discussed how porn is miseducation, the…

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Voyeurism And Exhibitionism: How Common Are They?

Do you like R-rated movies with steamy sex scenes? Most people do. There’s a little bit of voyeur in most of us. Do you ever wear tight, form-fitting, or revealing clothing? Most people do from…

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I have only had one lover–my husband. I did not have sex until I was 45 years old—no penetrative sex and less than a handful of sexual experiences that can even be considered “fooling around.”…