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Premature ejaculation is killing my sex life. Actually it’s almost non existent because of PE. At thirteen I lost my virginity without any sign of PE, then at 16 I had sex again and PE…

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As I’ve written previously, this podcast is my personal favorite hosted by Seattle sex therapist Diana Wiley, Ph.D., who happens to be an old friend. In this show, we discussed how porn is miseducation, the…

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Recently I’ve been feeling that I have a small penis. I didn’t think of this until I started watching some porn movies and noticed that the actors all have huge penises. FYI: I’m a virgin….

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“Breath play,” near-strangulation, is moving toward the sexual mainstream  Lack of oxygen (hypoxia) that approaches—but avoids—fatal strangulation can produce temporary euphoria. Recently, Indiana University researchers discovered that a sexual version of this, “breath play,” is…

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If I had a dollar for every time I’ve heard sex educators say that a happy sexual relationship is all about “communication,” I’d be rich. Yes, of course, good communication is essential. But as tongues…

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Conventionally, a heterosexual virgin is a person who has not had penis-vagina intercourse (PVI). Our cultural focus on losing virginity implies an either-or situation—virgin or not. Actually, sexual initiation usually involves a gradual escalation of…