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For a male, what’s the easiest way to begin stretching your anus?


  • Michael Castleman says:

    Start while bathing or showering. Gently insert one soapy finger. Please understand there are TWO anal sphincters, one visible, the other about an inch inside. The external sphincter is easier to relax. So don’t be surprised if your finger enters fairly easily and then gets stuck. That’s your inner sphincter. Press gently and your finger can slip through it. But be patient. Hurrying can cause pain. Probe a bit before you attempt to get through the inner muscle ring.

    Once you feel comfortable inserting one finger, work on inserting two. Once you can do that comfortably, consider using a small butt plug—with lots of lubricant. Insert the plug briefly at first, but as you become comfortable, you might wear it for longer periods. If you like, feel free to work up to larger plugs—again, with lots of lube on both your anus and the plug.

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    I wish you great sex.

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