He is new to sexual intercourse, only having lost his virginity two weeks ago. We’ve had sex 3 times, and never has it felt good for him. We’ve tried foreplay beforehand, but nothing works.
I think it’s because he pressures himself too much to have his orgasm, and it distracts him from any pleasure. Instead of enjoying the moment he’s thinking ” I HAVE to orgasm, I HAVE to orgasm, I HAVE to orgasm.”
We were looking up this problem before and one website suggested that it might not feel good because “he has gotten use to pleasure from his hand, he’s not used to pleasure from sex.” But I don’t think that’s the case. I want to be able to have a pleasurable, healthy sex life with him, but I have no idea how I can have that with the way things are going..