Hey man I can’t get this fuckin’ penis of mine to stand up in erection. Oh well, my wife is so beautiful but I guess she’s understanding big time


  • Michael Castleman says:

    From your brief question, it’s difficult to say anything definitive. But here are some things to consider:

    How much alcohol do you drink? For many, sex and alcohol are a common combination. However, after more than a drink or two, alcohol becomes a depressant that can kill erections. Try sex sober (or using cannabis) and see if that helps.

    Then I suggest a medical check-up. Many health condition can impair erections, for example, diabetes, and with diabetes, sometimes erection problems are the first sign. Your doctor might also prescribe an erection drug. There are three: Viagra, Cialis and Levitra, all similar but not the same. You might try them serially.

    I’d also suggest you obtain a copy of my low-cost e-book, Enjoy The Best Sex of Your Life. It contains 134 chapters on all aspects of lovemaking. I’d start with the several chapters that deal with erection. Beyond that, erection difficulties often signal a need for fine-tuning sexual attitudes and techniques. By making some minor adjustments, you and your wife might be able to not only help your situation, but enjoy more pleasurable sex in general.

    If a doctor work-up and the book don’t provide sufficient relief, I’d suggest you and your wife consult a sex therapist. If you’re unfamiliar with sex therapy, the therapist does NOT have sex with you and does NOT watch you have sex. Sex therapy is a form of talk-based psychotherapy with “homework.” It usually takes four to six months of weekly one-hour sessions costing $150-200/hour, though many therapists discount fees for those who can’t afford standard rates. For more, read my low-cost article, An Intimate Look at Sex Therapy, and/or see the film, “Hope Springs” with Meryl Streep and Tommy Lee Jones. To find a sex therapist near you, visit the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists, the Society for Sex Therapy and Research, or the American Board of Sexology.

    Most erection difficulties can be happily resolved. I hope yours can, too.

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