I’m in my 60s and my wife is in her 50s. We don’t just tolerate each other, we love each other. She says that if it were up to her, she would have sex maybe twice a year. I cannot live with that. I try talking to her gently and calmly but nothing helps. She always has an excuse, some of which are perfectly legit. She is tired, does not feel well, has to get up early, has too much work now, etc. However I still feel that there has to be a way to convince her to have sex. HELP !!!!