I am 22 years old and my boyfriend is 29. At the beginning of the relationship we always had intense passionate sex. But now we don’t always have sex every time we see each other and it’s not that intense or passionate. I’ve always been the one who craves sex like crazy in a relationship. I’ve had exes complain about it and it makes me feel awful. I really love my boyfriend and overall we have an amazing relationship but I’m afraid that sex could affect it. I am very frustrated. He knows that I always want sex and he just tells me that sometimes he just doesn’t feel like it or that we don’t have to do it all the time. But we don’t live together and only see each other like 3-4 times per week so why not have sex? How could I deal with this? What advice would you give me? Also, he doesn’t excrcise, he smokes (cigs and weed), and he is almost always tired. I am afraid of the saying that “the sex is a reflection of the relationship” because then that would mean our relationship is not as great as I think and feel. Most times I’m the one who initiates it or the one who talks about it to let him know I want it. Sometimes I end up feeling unwanted, not desired, and ugly. And it makes me overthink and feel really bad. I even came to the conclusion that maybe he’s not sexually attracted to me, that he doesn’t find me pretty or that he is with someone else. But then he tells me that he always wanted a very sexual partner and that now he has me and that I am perfect for him. Then why won’t he always have sex with me? Aren’t men supposed to want sex always?