young teenage couple

I am kinda new to sex and was wondering what are some of the best ways to make sure the girl is reaching orgasm?


  • Michael Castleman says:

    First of all, no one “gives” anyone an orgasm. Like laughter, orgasms emerge from deep within us when conditions are right. Lovers can help or hinder this process, but each of us is responsible for our own orgasms.

    That said, I applaud your concern for helping create the conditions that allow the women you’re with to come. Here’s the single most important thing to know: Only 25% of women are reliably orgasmic from intercourse alone—no matter how large the erection or how long intercourse lasts. Three-quarters of women NEED gentle, direct, extended stimulation of the clitoris to work up to orgasm. The clit sits OUTSIDE the vagina, above it, nestled under the top junction of the vainal lips. So forget everything you’ve seen in movies and porn. For most women, intercourse is enjoyable, but it’s not the way they climax. For most women, what hangs between your legs is less important than how you use your fingers and especially your tongue.

    For more on caressing the clitoris so women come and many other key topics about women’s sexuality—and men’s—I urge you to purchase a copy of my low-cost e-book, Enjoy The Best Sex of Your Life. Its 135 chapters cover all aspects of solo and partner sexuality, so if you’re “kinda new” to sex, the e-book should provide a firm foundation for good lifelong sex skills. And my e-book carries a money-back guarantee through PayPal, so it’s risk-free. Check it out and I’m confident you’ll gain sexual confidence, raise reliable erections, last as long as you want, and get two-thumbs-up reviews from the women in your bed.

    I wish you great sex.

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