I feel cheated. He thinks he satisfies me with hand jobs. No. He can make me female ejaculate, but I don’t feel any orgasm. For our first seven years, we had classic intercourse with simultaneous climaxes. But that was long ago. We’re our mid-70s now. There’s no oxytocin event for either of us. He is just not letting me take him anywhere. And he tells me I have come. I feel cheated.