I actually have a couple questions: One is in regards to my own anatomy. I am a 47 year old female who was sexually abused as a child, since I was a toddler to age 12, never penetrated but every other sick thing imaginable including constant forced use of a vibrator to stimulate me ever since I was 6 or 7. Other similar issues occurred later in life. My point being that even though I’ve learned to forgive the perpetrators and forgive myself and know that it wasn’t my fault, I’ve sought counseling and have a pretty good spiritually healthy life. I do have some physical conditions: colon & thyroid cancer in my mid twenties and again in my early thirties…I have zero thyroid left, In my early 30’s I developed ulcerative colitis. But even before they came about, I noticed that I’ve never been able to actually orgasm, I thought when I was in my early 20s it was due to what happened to my sexual trauma. Now I wonder if it could be more my physical traumas. I am 47 years old and still can’t orgasm…I mean I can feel pleasures but only with oral sex or using a vibrator never through intercourse. and even so, my “orgasms” ..( use that word with great reservation) are like a spurt of maybe like two to four seconds ..if that. Could it still be psychological or could it be something physical from what happened to me in my youth… Would you know the answer? Or if not, how I could go about figuring it out?