Woman who just masterbated

I’m a woman who wants sex all the time! It’s driving me crazy. Is there something wrong with me?


  • Michael Castleman says:

    Opinion is divided about people who are highly sexual and want sex all the time. Those in the “sex addiction” industry would say something is wrong with you. But they are severely prejudiced against any sex that’s not for procreation or affirmation of monogamous relationships. They condemn recreational sex and people with major libidos who want lots of sex.

    I feel differently. There’s only something wrong if your sexual hunger significantly disrupts your life, if you’re flunking out of school because of your sexuality, or getting reprimanded at work, or getting arrested, or if it’s destroying relationships with friends and family. If not, if you’re functioning okay in the world and just have a major libido, all is well.

    What to do about this. If you don’t already own a vibrator or two, I suggest you invest in one or more—and enjoy them whenever you like.

    If you feel emotionally distressed about your big libido and want to talk with a professional, I suggest you consult a sex therapist. If you’re unfamiliar with sex therapy, the therapist does NOT have sex with you and does NOT watch you have sex. Sex therapy is a form of talk-based psychotherapy. It usually takes four to six months of weekly one-hour sessions. It costs $150-200/hour, though many therapists discount fees for those who can’t afford standard rates. For more, read my low-cost article, An Intimate Look at Sex Therapy, and/or see the film, “Hope Springs” with Meryl Streep and Tommy Lee Jones. To find a sex therapist near you, visit the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists, the Society for Sex Therapy and Research, or the American Board of Sexology.

    I wish you great sex—as much as you like without disrupting your life.

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