Hi, I had twins 8 months ago. I would consider having another child, but my husband has postpartum depression and refuses to even discuss any more kids. He said he’s thinking of getting the snip to make sure there’s no chance of my birth control failing. Before I first got pregnant, I was aware that my husband found pregnant women attractive and was excited that I could provide that fantasy for him… until he wouldn’t touch me. From about 4 months pregnant he thought sex with me was disgusting and didn’t want sexual with me at all. Since our babies arrived, we have had sex one time. Just once. In 8 months. He says he’s too tired.I know he watches porn and he knows I don’t like it (as it definitely impacts our sex life) and he deletes his browser history daily to hide it. One day he didn’t delete it and curiosity got the better of me (I know I shouldn’t be looking but I want to know what he would prefer to me) He was watching porn of pregnant women masturbating. Honestly while I was pregnant I loved my body, I felt great, my tummy was tight and gorgeous and round and I am large breasted.
So my husband never wants me to be pregnant ever again and didn’t want to have sex with me. Now that I’m not pregnant he won’t either and I find out he does in fact find pregnant women attractive?! How can I try and attract my husband again? I’m starting to realise it may be more about me and less about ‘his time.’