At age 63 I lost my bladder and associated organs to cancer [not my testicles or penis]. I can still have orgasms with sufficient oral and manual stimulation from my wife. I am now 80 y/o and she’s 77. She still orgasms with a vibrator, but is now hesitant to accept cunnilingus to achieve O. She used to accept oral but now doesn’t want to. She won’t say why. ANY THOUGHTS?