unhappy black couple having argument at home

She’s threatening divorce. We’re both infected with chlamydia. Is it possible that neither of us cheated? I know I haven’t cheated and she swears the same. Pleaseeeee HELP.


  • Michael Castleman says:

    Chlamydia is usually transmitted sexually, but not always. So it’s possible for married individuals to develop it without cheating.

    In addition, half of men and three-quarters of women show no symptoms, but get diagnosed as a result of other health testing. I don’t know how long you’ve been married, but the shorter your time married, the greater the chance that one of you picked up chlamydia before you became monogamous, showed no symptoms, passed it to your future spouse after you met, and your spouse showed no symptoms either until it was discovered. For more, I suggest you consult the National STD Hotline.

    I hope your marriage survives.

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