My wife and I have been married for ten years. She has never had an orgasm. She has tried reading erotica, using a vibrator. She gets highly aroused, but can’t quite get over the edge. It gets too sensitive and she has to stop. She says that she doesn’t really feel the need to orgasm or really even want to. But she tries because she knows sex is important to me. I try to be a good lover and do the things in your book. But I wonder if I should just accept that she isn’t interested in orgasm and try to enjoy it for what it is. I just feel like it could be so much more enjoyable for both of us if she could learn to orgasm regularly. But I also realize I can’t want it for her. Your advice would be very much appreciated. Thanks!