My girlfriend and I have been dating for over 6 years, we’re both each other’s first, and we’ve taken things fairly slow because of how young we started dating (in freshman year of high school). This is especially true for penetrative sex, which we’ve only tried recently. The few times we’ve tried it’s been uncomfortable and even painful for her to take even a little bit of me. I am above average in both size and girth, which makes it challenging for her to accommodate me. We’ve found the right condom size for me, used (what we thought was enough) lube, and tried to lead up to it with enough foreplay, but it’s still uncomfortable. I think that part of the issue is nervousness and the place/time we’ve been able to try (we both live with our parents when we’re not apart from each other at different colleges).She would like to try and use sex toys to get used to penetration and work up to being able to take me. I’m not sure whether to buy just one that she can use, or multiple ones ranging in size. Any advice about our problems would be much appreciated! Thank you!