I know that I am one of many with the same question but I simply cannot find the right solution for it. I am 18 year old and have a pretty good relationship. We are 18 months together and 3 months ago we had our first intercourse. That was the first time for both of us. It wasn’t like I imagined it. I was stressed and ejaculated quickly. But for next few times I was pretty good and could last pretty well—I suprised myself. But then we started to have sex in my car. I am a teen so I don’t haven my own apartment and the car is the best solution right now. I thought everything would go fine because car is big and we have enough space. But immediately after I put my penis in her, I ejaculated. I was never so sensitive. The second time I usually last longer, but the last three times my second ejaculation happened as fast as the first. And now I cannot get an erection anymore. I love my girlfriend and I want her to enjoy sex with her. This is a really big problem for me—probably  psychological because I’ve tried kegels and everything. (I always use condoms and first few times we used lube.)

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  • Michael Castleman says:

    First, I’d like to commend you for all the sexual things you’re doing RIGHT: waiting before becoming sexual with your girlfriend, and using condoms and lube. That’s excellent. You’re on your way to a satisfying sex life.

    Now about your premature ejaculation: You have correctly identified stress as the culprit. So what to do? I urge you to purchase my e-booklet, The Cure for Premature Ejaculation. It discusses the program sex therapists have developed that teaches around 90% of men reliable ejaculatory control. You CAN last as long as you’d like. The program takes a few months and works best when the woman supports it. I urge you to get the e-booklet and read it together with your girlfriend as you work through the program. After three months, if you’re not satisfied with your progress, I will gladly refund your money. You CAN last longer. The e-booklet can show you how.

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