woman blindfolded and tied to bed frame

So me and my partner have discussed trying BDSM. What are some good practices we can do to edge ourselves into that world? We’ve discussed the Daddy and Little Girl scenarios–not into that specifically, but we both share an interest in Dom and Sub relationships. I don’t wanna dive into this blind so any advice is greatly appreciated.

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  • Michael Castleman says:

    I have several suggestions for you. First, for a practical, supportive overview of BDSM, I suggest you read my low-cost e-article: BDSM: A Loving Introduction. It explains how this intimate variation works and how to derive the most pleasure from it. The e-article carries a money-back guarantee through PayPal so it’s risk-free.

    About getting started: Begin with specifying your safe words, and always honor them. Talk about what you’re each into, and discuss how best to play in ways you would both enjoy. You say you’re into Dom/Sub scenes. Two popular, not-heavy ways to explore D/S involves spanking and blindfold play. You might consider them. Or not, as you wish. Then consider a written contract outlining how you plan to play. Putting things in writings helps you consider all the “what ifs” that might turn up.

    If you want more in-depth resources, I suggest SM101 by Jay Wiseman, or Screw the Roses, Send the the Thorns by Miller and Devon.

    I wish you great–and adventurous–sex.

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