I recently began seeing this new guy. His penis is much longer and skinnier than my previous partner’s. His was about an 1.5″ shorter but had more girth. My new partner doesn’t seem to maintain a full erection while having sex. Would a cock ring help? I mean I can’t make myself tighter. Any advice would be appreciated.
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Based on your brief description, it’s difficult to have much insight into your new partner’s erection issues.
Would a cock ring help? I’m not sure, but possibly. They’re inexpensive and easy to use, so you might give a model or two a try and see what happens.
I seriously doubt his erection situation has anything to do with the dimensions of his erection or with your vaginal tightness. Size rarely has anything to do with erection problems, and unless you recently delivered a baby, the vagina’s folded muscle can hold any size erection reasonably tightly.
You don’t say how old the two of you are. I wonder how much sex information you’ve come across. If you feel well-informed about all aspects of lovemaking and erection function, the next step would be a sex therapist. However, if you’re on the young side, and unfamiliar with the fine points of advanced lovemaking, then before spending major bucks on a sex therapist, you might consider a self-help resource, for example, my low-cost e-book, Enjoy the Best Sex of Your Life. Its 135 chapters include several specifically on erection issues and many others that discuss issues related to erection function. The e-book carries a money-back guarantee through PayPal so it’s risk-free.
I wish you great sex.
Is it possible you’re being too demanding or judgemental about his penis? The first thing you mentioned is a comparison of your previous partner’s penis to your present partner’s, but is this really important at all? I don’t think so. It’s possible either that you are expecting that his penis should be longer than it naturally is when erect, or your undue focus on his penis size is causing him enough anxiety that it’s affecting his erections.