A few years ago, my wife agreed that if I paid off her credit cards, she would be willing to receive a sensual massage with a happy ending from a stranger while I watched. After I paid off her debt, she backed out. I felt resentment and she may have as well because at that point she agreed to erotic chat with me and another man which she did briefly and then simply said she didn’t want to do it anymore. Now she wants me to pay off her Lasik surgery and I feel like telling her I won’t pay it off unless she makes good on the original deal we made to be massaged sensually while I watch or to continue the erotic chat. Am I out of line to feel this way and to suggest that she do this or I won’t pay?
Agreements involving sex. Am I out of line?
A woman looking at her husband with suspense