My 87 year old mother has lived with a man for 42 years. He now demands sex or manual stimulation every waking moment. She has told him NO many times but he continues to ask her to undress, perform sex acts, etc.
She does not have enough monthly income to live alone, and has asked me to see if I could find some help in how to handle this situation. Her partner is getting increasingly angry over her rejection. He had a heart bypass about 10 years ago and prostate surgery 5 years ago, and has a tube from his bladder connected to the recepticle bag on the outside.