You stated in your AARP article about STI’s in older adults that you “might never have sex” with a partner if she was infected. You said you’d talk with several doctors. I guess you know it is so much more difficult for a positive female to pass to the male than the other way around. I guess you also know that with a suppressed virus, undetectable viral load, and good t-cell counts, having had a vasectomy before 30 years before being tested positive, and always using condoms during intercourse, is SAFE SEX. I became infected from my wife who was infected with blood transfusions around 1981. She did not know she was infected until 2000 and that is when I was also tested positive. I lost her in 2000 and have been searching for a partner that understands that with proper use of condoms, we can still have safe, sexual intercourse.