I absolutely love giving my wife oral sex and can’t get enough of it. I want to do that every time we make love, but she doesn’t like or want it, and we haven’t done that for years now. Without it, I can’t make her cum and she doesn’t even want me to manually stimulate her clitoris much either. I give her neck, shoulders, back and other massage for at least 20 to 30 minutes. This involves everything but her breasts, nipples or vulva. When I reach for those after this time, she pushes my hand away and then figures I’m getting bored and then moves over and gives me a blow job to get me hard and then we go to intercourse. Unfortunately, I can only last a couple minutes before ejaculating and that’s the end of it. She says she doesn’t need an orgasm and is fine, but deep down I don’t think she is.
Why would she not want oral sex? I think I’m pretty good at it as I’ve studied it a lot and am super enthusiastic giving it.