I understand there is a lot of nuance surrounding the female orgasm, but in my experience, and from research online, there seems to be only one way to tell if the big O is being achieved for a lady, and that is, the display of involuntary, rhythmic, pelvic floor contractions that happen during the release part of the orgasm. About 5-15 in fact, that are clearly visible in the anus and outer portion of the vagina. Here’s my issue, I’ve heard other women, including my current gf, say that they rarely if ever experience this, yet they claim to have had orgasms all the time. I think there is a fair deal of confusion for women and men about female orgasms, and I’d really like to know if I’m one of them, as id like to ensure that my partner experiences all the pleasure she can. Should the goal be to trigger those contractions? Thanks!
I want her to have orgasms
