Hi, I’ve been married for 28 years and now we are having major marital issues. First, his cheating with the co worker for many years, undetected because I trusted him. Second, he pays me very little attention and rarely wants to have sex and is addicted to porn. I feel hopeless and helpless and ugly and fat. I’m afraid my husband doesn’t love me anymore. I’ve tried everything including wearing sexy lingerie. Please help me.