I am 77. I married my wife when she became pregnant, and have been married for 52 years. She has always been reluctant to engage in sex, except for one period in the 1980s when I was in my fifties and financially successful, and she would try any and every sexual practice that appealed to me several times a week. I now suffer from erectile dysfunction, but I can still climax and ejaculate. My wife will not have intercourse. She says I lack the capability. She gives me hand jobs 2-3 times a week, but will not let me touch her breasts or genitals. I rather suspect that she is controlling me to her own satisfaction, but can see no remedy. You might imagine that I am not happy, but enjoy what I can, for fear that I might even lose that. Do you have any practical advice?
Wife gives handjobs but nothing else
