I am a 51-year-old woman who has been married for 11 years. I’ve had no sex for 8 years. My husband won’t have sex and won’t discuss it, he just says it’s not important. He does have some ED issues but nothing that the little pill won’t help. Of course, he won’t take Viagra. It’s a sad place to be and I don’t know what to do. I ask, beg, cry, and get nothing. What do you suggest for me?