My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years. We met on lesbian tinder and when we first got together, the sex was frequent and great. 5 months in, her mum died and understandably, this affected it and it hasn’t been the same since. She has struggled with her libido to the point where we haven’t had sex for well over a year and a half (maybe even longer!). It doesn’t even seem to be on her radar at this point. At first, I would try and initiate, but I was rejected almost every time, so eventually I gave up and that’s when it stopped completely. She has problems with her mental health, and is on anti-depressants so I feel this probably affects it too! But I really need some advice on how to try and get it back, when it’s not even on the table remotely, it’s hard to try and make it happen! Any advice would be appreciated, thanks!
My lesbian gf hasn’t wanted sex for 18 months!
