I’m 28 and after a few comments from past boyfriends I have become extremely paranoid and insecure that my vagina is ‘looser’ than most. (I must add that it was usually me probing them for answers rather than them spontaneously commenting on it…) I probably could chalk this up to being very aroused if it wasn’t for how my vaginal entrance looks in the mirror compared to photos I’ve seen on the internet. (particularly the one on Wikipedia when you google ‘vagina’). Compared to many images and diagrams mine looks considerably larger/longer/open, which leads me to believe what these ex- lovers said is true. Am I being paranoid? Can you judge how tight/loose someone is from external appearances? It certainly affects my sex life worrying if they’re thinking, ‘This girl is loose,’ or when they take a long time to ejaculate I blame my lack of snugness. I’d very much appreciate any advice or reassurance about this as it has been a major complex of mine since the first comment. I did ask a nurse on the subject once but she didn’t provide much help.