I am a 62yr old man with what I think of as an “odd” problem – I find it very hard to orgasm during sex with my wife. We have an excellent sex life and I can maintain a good erection for long periods of time and bring my wife to orgasm several times during our lovemaking, but have great difficulty having an orgasm myself. We have tried extended foreplay; oral; her masturbating me; her being the driving force during intercourse, but I seem fixated on pleasuring my wife and consequently don’t reach orgasm myself, except on rare occasions. When I masturbate myself there are no problems reaching orgasm.
Help !!!