I am 25 and I feel very sexually attracted to an older married man, and very much older than me (63). I first met him when I began my first semester in college since he was my professor. At that time, I wasn’t doing emotionally well, suffered from depression, and didn’t have anyone else in my life for support. However this person helped me get through my difficulties, and it grew from there. I first looked up to him as a mentor, began seeing him as a father figure… and then I began having very strong sexual desire for him. The love I feel towards him is real, and I think I will always feel love for him since at the same time, I still look up to him greatly and see him as a father figure. But I do not want to deal with these sexual feelings anymore. Would you by any chance know if there’s a way one can decrease their sexual desire towards someone (more than just finding a boyfriend…)?