I have only had one lover–my husband. I did not have sex until I was 45 years old—no penetrative sex and less than a handful of sexual experiences that can even be considered “fooling around.” When we first got married, we had sex at least once a day–sometimes twice. My husband would tell me that I was the best lover that he ever had and at the time I really did believe him. My orgasms were so powerful. I have fainted, saw in “technicolor,” really, amazing experiences….but now, I am wondering if he was just being kind and loving. We hardly ever have sex now and I think it is because he is tired of all of the “lessons” during sex. I don’t watch porn and there is only so much you can read. How do I “advance” in sexual techniques without watching porn. I really want to be the great lover he tells me that I am and I need to make up for a lot of lost time—p.s. I am a screamer too. Anything to help that? Sometimes it breaks the mood—any advice?