Thinking about the nature of sexual satisfaction, based on my own experience–
Does sexual satisfaction have two separate components: Physical– and mental? The former, satisfied by orgasms, however obtained– the latter, only by closeness with one’s lover?
I might satisfy myself in the former sense through solitary masturbation, but remain frustrated– even though satisfied physically.
In the other, I might satisfy myself mentally, by touch and closeness with my lover– but not be satisfied physically.