Hi. My girlfriend of eight months (she is 36 & I am 50) always wants to have intercourse. She is not interested in cuddling or connecting, or in talking about sexuality and sensuality in any deeper way. As she puts it, she just wants “that thing in me.” I don’t understand how a woman only wants the physical romp, literally daily. I have been asking myself, and twice mentioned this to her, if this interest in only the physicality means sex for her doesn’t need an emotional commitment. Last night she said “I love you but if you don’t give me that I will find another man to f**k me.” I was in shock and asked her to repeat it, which she did. Thereafter i didn’t say another word. Your insights would be most most appreciated.
Thanks.