Why speak up? Better sex.

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The fragile male ego

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15 percent of women report sexual pain

Laumann, E.O et al. The Social Organization of Sexuality: Sexual Practices in the United States, University of Chicago Press, 1994.

Laumann, E.O. et al. “Sexual Dysfunction Among Older Adults: Prevalence and Risk Factors from a Nationally Representative U.S. Probability Sample of Men and Women 57-85 Years of Age,” Journal of Sexual Medicine (2008) 5:2300.

Coaching helps relieve women’s sexual pain

Anderson, A.B. et al. “Associations Between Penetration Cognitions, Genital Pain, and Sexual Well-Being in Women with Provoked Vestibulodynia,” Journal of Sexual Medicine (2016) 13:444.

Boerner, K.E. and N.O. Rosen. “Acceptance of Vulvovaginal Pain in Women with Provoked Vestibulodynia and Their Partners: Associations with Pain, Psychological, and Sexual Adjustment,” Journal of Sexual Medicine (2015) 12:1450.

Lemieux, A.J. et al. “Do Romantic Partners’ Responses to Entry Dyspareunia Affect Women’s Experience of Pain? The Roles of Catastrophizing and Self-Efficacy,” Journal of Sexual Medicine (2013) 10:2274.

Rancourt, K.M. et al. “It Takes Two: Sexual Communication Patterns and the Sexual and Relational Adjustments of Couples Coping with Provoked Vestibulodynia,” Journal of Sexual Medicine (2017) 14:434.

Rancourt, K.M. et al. “Talking About Sex When Sex Is Painful: Dyadic Sexual Communication is Associated with Women’s Pain, and Couples’ Sexual and Psychological Outcomes in Provoked Vestibulodynia,” Archives of Sexual Behavior (2016) 45:1933.