Multiples have been reported for almost a century. Now we know more about them. From the earliest sex research through today, the main issue with women’s orgasms is the substantial proportion of women who DON’T…
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Sustained eye-gazing increases trust, intimacy, and sexual pleasure. Sexologists almost universally recommend extended, gentle, playful, mutual whole-body caressing as a key ingredient of satisfying lovemaking. But people can also caress each other without actually touching—by gazing…
Enjoying great sex isn’t all that complicated. Just embrace these nine elements. Each of us is sexually unique. We all have complicated personalities and highly individual lovemaking preferences. Put two erotically unique individuals together, and…
I was recently on the Oh Fuck Yeah podcast with Ruan Willow. Among the many topics included were libido, healthy sex, relationships, culture, pleasure, sexual health, why masturbation is healthy and necessary, why sex addiction…
I was recently on the “Keep Them Coming” podcast where Kristen Thomas, a Certified Sex Coach and Clinical Sexologist, and I discuss love, lust, and everything in between. Have a listen:
In BDSM and non-kink settings, there are many reasons why pain can be enjoyable In bondage, discipline, and sado-masochism (BDSM), dominant players (doms, tops) may inflict pain—in SM parlance, “intense sensation”—on submissive participants (subs, bottoms)….
Monogamy, Non-Monogamy, Hall Passes, Threesomes, More-somes, and Swinging In the 2011 romantic comedy, Hall Pass, two wives grant their husbands one week of unlimited sexual escapades with no marital consequences. The movie itself is forgettable,…
Sex therapists agree that the most satisfying, most deeply erotic lovemaking involves slow sex—leisurely, playful, massage-inspired, whole-body sensuality. But sometimes there’s no time for it, and some lovers enjoy fast, rip-your-clothes-off satisfying quickies. Sex doesn’t…
Mention vibrators, and most people immediately think of women’s sexual pleasure. And no wonder: Vibrators easily provide direct clitoral stimulation intense enough to produce orgasm reliably and enjoyably during either masturbation or partner sex. Vibrators…
The audio version of my book, Sizzling Sex for Life: Everything You Need to Know to Maximize Erotic Pleasure is now available. It is free with an Audible subscription. Please let your friends know.
