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I’m 49. My husband is 56. I’ve initiated most of our sex, and that’s been frustrating because I rarely feel desired (though he tells me he wants me). Well, these past six months or so,…
I’m 49. My husband is 56. I’ve initiated most of our sex, and that’s been frustrating because I rarely feel desired (though he tells me he wants me). Well, these past six months or so,…
I’m in my 60s and my wife is in her 50s. We don’t just tolerate each other, we love each other. She says that if it were up to her, she would have sex maybe…
My husband & I have been married for 12 years. Were are 52 years old. His 1st marriage & my 2nd. I married him because he’s the best man I know & I love him….
I love to be touched. All the time. I want hugs and kisses daily. He does kiss me … but when it comes to sex, I almost have to beg for hugs and touching. I…
I am in a committed relationship. My boyfriend, age 54, and I, 43, have been together almost two years. Our sex life was amazing for the first 6 months. We shared different kinds of bedroom…
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When a man has heterosex, a woman does, too. How could reported frequencies be so different? Ever since the late 1940s when Alfred Kinsey conducted the first scientific survey of American sexuality, three odd findings…
Read Part 1 here and Part 2 here. In alleged “sex addiction,” the real issues are usually guilt and shame about being sexual. Sex comes in three varieties: procreative, relationship-affirming, and recreational. Humans have always…
We’re struggling with more than a difference in desire. He doesn’t get an erection and blames me. I am 70 and I just get too tired trying for hours for him to have an orgasm….
In recent studies, more than 90 percent of women admit having had sexual fantasies, and depending on the study, some one-third to two-thirds confess at least occasional fantasies of being forced into sex. Of course,…
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