I love to be touched. All the time. I want hugs and kisses daily. He does kiss me … but when it comes to sex, I almost have to beg for hugs and touching. I could happily have sex every day, but I’m prepared to settle for once a week. I never refuse him. So how often do we do it? About once a month. When we do have sex, it’s great but way too far in between times. He’s rarely in the mood. This feels so unfair. I’m broken hearted. He’s the first man in my entire 47 years of life to say no to sex and he’s 15 years younger than me. How do I handle this? Please help! I pleasure myself more now than when I was single.