When a man has heterosex, a woman does, too. How could reported frequencies be so different? Ever since the late 1940s when Alfred Kinsey conducted the first scientific survey of American sexuality, three odd findings…
I want to seek your advice on how to deal with a big desire difference between me and my partner. My preferred frequency is around 4 times a month, while he wants to do it…
My wife and I have been married 12 years and have 3 children. We have been through the usual ups and downs, including very different ideas about sex. Sex between us used to be her…
Who wouldn’t want better sex quickly? Quite often, surprisingly small sexual and lifestyle changes can produce instant benefits. Here are nine suggestions: Use lubricant. Most people use saliva. Vegetable oils and commercial lubes are also…
After the first oral contraceptive was approved in 1960, The Pill quickly became the world’s most popular birth control method. More than 100 million women worldwide have used it, and among American women age 18…
My boyfriend and I have developed a desire difference. We’ve been together for 8 months. We have always had a healthy sex life. But recently I’ve noticed he wants it less or not as much…
My husband and I are very much in love, but he’s 59 and doesn’t want to have sex any longer. I am 11 years younger, and can’t accept giving up having sex with my husband….
The sex-addiction industry says the affliction causes great harm. Does it? Part 1 of this series shows that “sex addiction” does not meet standard criteria for real addictions. Proponents of sex-addiction understand this, but don’t want…
My husband and I, 35 and 29, have been happily married for thee years, but have always struggled with intimacy. From the start, my husband has always been pretty happy just cuddling in bed with…
My husband and I have been married 17 years. We used to have sex all the time. Then he decided he wanted it only about once a week. The past year, it’s been like twice…
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