Sir: I am 24 yrs old. My penis hides when I get fearful. I feel very much uncomfortable with this. I am getting erections properly. My erection is 8cm long. Plz help me. I am getting married in 10 days.

I’m 69 and have a lot of difficulty reaching an orgasm despite really feeling the need to. I used to be able to masturbate and climax easily, but not any more. Help!!

Am having a problem with PE. How do I cure it?

Will the program you recommend for curing premature ejaculation help me if the current issue causing my PE is my wife’s infidelity? I have  fought PE over the years, usually lasting 3-5 minutes in most cases, long enough to give my wife an orgasm. Since her infidelity, I have not been able to last a minute in most cases. Will I see results from your system? Or is my situation beyond what your program can handle?

Hi, I am a 52-year-old female. Single for 5 years. I am now in new relationship. I would like to have sex with new man. How do I overcome the nervousness I feel? And how I might react? I am afraid I may cry, or something else embarrassing may happen. By the way, he is very shy.

How common is it for men to orgasm from vibrator stimulation alone—with no up and down stroking?

My wife enjoys her magic wand (I bought us a second one so as not to burn out the first!) and I tried it with the male attachments a few months ago but it didn’t really do much for me.

Then a couple weeks ago she brought me to orgasm while holding the vibrator on my shaft and stimulating the head of my penis with her mouth. It was a surprise to both of us.

I’ve been writing up her sexual history and it’s been so arousing for me that yesterday I masturbated twice to help settle myself–and both times were with the vibrator. Once with an attachment and the second time just holding the vibrating head against the end of my penis. Not trying to orgasm, just enjoying the stimulation.

The feeling of orgasm that way is much different from almost every other one I’ve had. No discernible plateau, just a feeling that is better and better, and then an unexpected ejaculation. That feeling seems much more like descriptions of female orgasms—more diffuse, less focused on the big build up and release.

I’ve gone through your 452-page e-book and I’m not seeing any reference to males having orgasms while using a vibrator the same way a woman uses one– Any thoughts?

Michael, my wife and I have enjoyed watching the first two seasons of “Masters of Sex.”

We’re wondering if you have any thoughts about this series, particularly as to the accuracy of the sexual research results or procedures. Thanks!

I’m a 59 and completely devastated to realize that sexual pleasure, one of my greatest joys, had been ripped away because of the prostatectomy I had last November for cancer. I’m so grief-stricken that I can hardly function; this is torture. Yes, the urologist explained that I “might” develop “some” erectile dysfunction, but he never said I’d wind up like overcooked spaghetti. He says he was able to spare one nerve line, but I’m batting zero. How can I cope with never having sex again? WTF!!??

I’m 28 and after a few comments from past boyfriends I have become extremely paranoid and insecure that my vagina is ‘looser’ than most. (I must add that it was usually me probing them for answers rather than them spontaneously commenting on it…) I probably could chalk this up to being very aroused if it wasn’t for how my vaginal entrance looks in the mirror compared to photos I’ve seen on the internet. (particularly the one on Wikipedia when you google ‘vagina’). Compared to many images and diagrams mine looks considerably larger/longer/open, which leads me to believe what these ex- lovers said is true. Am I being paranoid? Can you judge how tight/loose someone is from external appearances? It certainly affects my sex life worrying if they’re thinking, ‘This girl is loose,’ or when they take a long time to ejaculate I blame my lack of snugness. I’d very much appreciate any advice or reassurance about this as it has been a major complex of mine since the first comment. I did ask a nurse on the subject once but she didn’t provide much help.

When having penis-vagina sex, I sometimes make noises like I’m passing gas. It is very embarrassing. Is this common? Why does it happen?