Partners with sexually transmitted infections may have cheated—but maybe not. It’s the decision no one wants to make. You’re diagnosed with a sexually transmitted infection (STI). Should you inform your partner(s)? If you do, what…
Scenario- we are both 45. I’ve had a total hysterectomy so I’m menopausal. Have had huge stress past 4 months complicated by a move to an apartment from a single dwelling house. Our college son…
The main subject of my query is the current cultural mayhem over what’s moral sexual behaviour and what can be safely deemed as “harassment” without demonizing the sexuality of a particular subset of people. The…
BDSM players are as sexually and emotionally healthy as the general population. Italian researchers recently surveyed the sexuality of 266 Italian men and women who enjoy bondage, discipline, and sado-masochism (BDSM). The study population ranged…
At age 63 I lost my bladder and associated organs to cancer [not my testicles or penis]. I can still have orgasms with sufficient oral and manual stimulation from my wife. I am now 80…
Do you like R-rated movies with steamy sex scenes? Most people do. There’s a little bit of voyeur in most of us. Do you ever wear tight, form-fitting, or revealing clothing? Most people do from…
My question has to do with orchiectomy (removal of testicles). Brief background: I was born with undescended testicles and had orchiopexy at age 10 to lower them into my scrotum. But it was a botched…
I am 78 and have no partner, my wife died 5 years ago. But I still have good erection when watching XXX movies, preferably the so called ‘girl/girl’ movies which some times prompt me to…
1. Is it true that circumcision in grown men leaves the penis the less sensitive? 2. Is it true that a man who has undergone circumcision may have difficulty reaching orgasm age because of numbness…
Hello, Mr. Castleman. Thanks for providing this free service. I’ll try to be brief. My wife and I are in our early 50’s. We’ve been together for 15 years, and our sex life was terrific…
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