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My wife and I have been together for 15 years. Our sex is great but she’s very reserved. I’ve always had a fantasy about sharing her with another guy. The other morning she woke me up and said she dreamt about me making her fuck another guy. I reached down and she was soaked. Told her it was normal to want that and she should feel what it’s like. Also told her a dream I had that was similar. She got very excited. Is she into this? What now ? I can’t stop thinking about it!

I’ve been working on your technique for curing PE, and have had success lasting as long as want—but only if I take things kind of slow. My wife starts to physically respond with great pleasure at a pretty vigorous pace of deep thrusting. Not pounding but she really likes deep long stroke at a good firm pace. Problem is after taking long time build up the pace of intercourse the moment she starts to really physically and vocally respond, I lose my control and ejaculate. I want nothing more than to give my wife all the pleasure I can but I feel like I am losing it and letting her down right at the point she is moving towards a climax. Any tips on how to maintain control when things really get going they way she likes?

Most women into swinging label themselves bi-curious implying they would at least welcome some mutual touching or feeling. What percentage of women are into swinging to meet women first and men second?

Is it possible to experience breakouts—skin eruptions—after my partner has sex with another female??

My husband has lost interest in sex. He says it’s not me, but his low libido. We are 63. He is on many meds for high blood pressure and heart disease, but can still perform.  Do these drugs cause low libido? Also, he has prostate problems. He still hugs me, gives me flowers, and cards, but can a marriage survive without sex? He ls not a cuddler, never has been. After 40 years together, is there hope ? He says it’s not me, but he never forgets if I hurt him. ls he doing this for revenge? Should l just be patient?

I always tense up during sex. Especially when I’m ready to orgasm, This makes it really hard and frustrating for my husband to climax. What can I do to relax in bed?

A few years back, I learned that I was very into safe, consensual exhibitionism. While I don’t 100% need to engage in it to achieve sexual satisfaction, the idea of being watched by others is my biggest turn on. However, I find that this causes problems in my dating life; inevitably I find myself either shying away from dating someone or actively not pursuing relationships, because I have no idea how or when I would bring this up. I know that I would WANT a long-term partner to be into performing on camera or at sex clubs or other similar situations with me, but I also don’t know that you can just be up front on a date and say “hey, this is what I like”. How do I find someone who shares these interests?

I am 17 years old and I have been dating my girlfriend Stephanie for 5 years. We are sexually active. We are models and motorcycle racers. We want to become porn stars. How do we convince our families?

I’m 14 years old soon turning 15. I currently have a 6 inch penis with 4.5 inch girth. How many more inches can it possibly grow? And can it get to 8 inches by the time I’m an adult?

I read some articles that porn cause ED with real partner. Is that true? I only get hard while watching porn or thinking about fantasy.