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Is it possible to experience breakouts—skin eruptions—after my partner has sex with another female??

My husband has lost interest in sex. He says it’s not me, but his low libido. We are 63. He is on many meds for high blood pressure and heart disease, but can still perform.  Do these drugs cause low libido? Also, he has prostate problems. He still hugs me, gives me flowers, and cards, but can a marriage survive without sex? He ls not a cuddler, never has been. After 40 years together, is there hope ? He says it’s not me, but he never forgets if I hurt him. ls he doing this for revenge? Should l just be patient?

I always tense up during sex. Especially when I’m ready to orgasm, This makes it really hard and frustrating for my husband to climax. What can I do to relax in bed?

A few years back, I learned that I was very into safe, consensual exhibitionism. While I don’t 100% need to engage in it to achieve sexual satisfaction, the idea of being watched by others is my biggest turn on. However, I find that this causes problems in my dating life; inevitably I find myself either shying away from dating someone or actively not pursuing relationships, because I have no idea how or when I would bring this up. I know that I would WANT a long-term partner to be into performing on camera or at sex clubs or other similar situations with me, but I also don’t know that you can just be up front on a date and say “hey, this is what I like”. How do I find someone who shares these interests?

I am 17 years old and I have been dating my girlfriend Stephanie for 5 years. We are sexually active. We are models and motorcycle racers. We want to become porn stars. How do we convince our families?

I’m 14 years old soon turning 15. I currently have a 6 inch penis with 4.5 inch girth. How many more inches can it possibly grow? And can it get to 8 inches by the time I’m an adult?

I read some articles that porn cause ED with real partner. Is that true? I only get hard while watching porn or thinking about fantasy.

We have been together 3+ years, living together 2+. He’s 70, I’m 68. Our sex life was good, but has dropped off to almost nothing. He has rejected me so many times it hurts. I thought it was due to his medical issues (diabetes, HBP) and recovery from his heart problems (stents put it) but now he is back to golf, etc.& his doctor has cleared him. We have had sex twice in the last 6 months. When I asked about his porn use & if he was doing that vs having sex with me, he denied it. I offered to watch it w/him. I was heartbroken & dismayed when I (sadly) snooped & found he has been online with multiple (young) women, spending $$ and messaging them. The messages read as if he cares about them. He goes online to watch live cam sex models when I go to bed. I love him dearly but feel like a fool. He has been doing this for the entire time we have been together. I’m ready to call it quits. I don’t expect him to stop watching porn but how do I get him to talk about improving our sex life? Help!!!

My partner and I have sex regularly. It is satisfying but I want more variety. How do I talk about the subject without being uncomfortable and without blaming or shaming her. I need to start from the beginning, as we have never talked about sex in the 2+ years we have been together.

How can I reduce the sensitivity of my penis, especially in the glans? In positions like doggy style, I get very sensitive there and feel I will come very fast.