Couple in bed playing

My partner and I have sex regularly. It is satisfying but I want more variety. How do I talk about the subject without being uncomfortable and without blaming or shaming her. I need to start from the beginning, as we have never talked about sex in the 2+ years we have been together.


  • Michael Castleman says:

    You’re absolutely right. Without variety, sex gets boring. Unfortunately, many couples don’t discuss their sexual repertoire, fall into a routine that becomes a rut, and then sex gets boring.

    What to do? I suggest you obtain a copy of my book, Sizzling Sex for Life. It begins with a 10-chapter package on the Ingredients of Sizzling Sex. One of them is novelty/variety. If she reads it, or better yet, the two of you read it together, I’m confident you can launch a discussion of variety without her feeling shamed or blamed.

    And if you haven’t talked about sex together, I’m sure the 10 Ingredients section will provide a great deal of food for discussion—and sexual enhancement.

    Check out Sizzling Sex for Life. I wish you sizzling sex for life!

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