When I don’t use lube, I come quickly. So I like to use it. But my wife doesn’t like lube. What should I do?
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When I don’t use lube, I come quickly. So I like to use it. But my wife doesn’t like lube. What should I do?
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I have two suggestions for you. First, if you like to provide oral sex and your wife likes to receive it, your saliva on her vulva can substitute nicely for lube. In addition, when women receive oral sex, they often get very aroused and produce more natural vaginal lubricant than they might without oral sex. So explore giving her gentle, extended oral before you attempt to insert your erection. When you do, her vagina should feel lubricated and you should last as long as you do with lube.
Second, I suggest you gain better ejaculatory control, so you can las as long as you like even without lube. To gain this skill, I suggest that you obtain a copy of my e-booklet The Cure for Premature Ejaculation. It describes a self-help version of the sex-therapy program that teaches 90% of men to last as long as they want.
I wish you sizzling sex for life!